Wednesday 14 October 2009

Relationships

AUM!!
My Ex boss and my friend had posted this question on his FB .... Subir ,with you permission

" Should relationships be kept on life support when one to know that Respect (Brain) is dead or should one let it die with dignity....?"

And this is my comment to it

When there is no respect in relationships, what is the point of "life support?" There is a famous saying "You realise the value of eyesight when you go blind." MY question is is what is the point in valuing something after it is lost when you cant value it while it is with you? When you live on life support you forget to live YOUR LIFE, YOUR VALUES, YOUR INDIVIDUALITY. you live for someone else. And when that happens, the relationship dies very sorely and very aggressively. Why wait for that stage when you can let it go with dignity?

That is one thought that needs a lot of thinking ...... i guess